Do you feel that you do not have enough friends to spend your time with and celebrate when there are milestones to celebrate? Do you find yourself lonely and wish that you had friends to spend time with on a Friday or Saturday night? Do you feel that you never maintained your high school friends if you lived in the same area where you grew up? If so, you are not alone, and there is good news. You can attract more friends into your life, and you have to learn to make the Law of Attraction work for you as you do. 

You Can Manifest New Friends

Having friends is essential for your well-being, as you need others to be there for you when you are going through significant situations in your life. You need them to be there for you when you celebrate something personal or struggling, grieving or needing advice. You also want to be the one to be there for your friends if they are going through something significant. Friends enrich your life. 

If you grew up with very few friends in life or the friends you did make were not genuine and only used you for what they wanted, then, unfortunately, that meant you emitted a low frequency which may have been caused by you believing you did not deserve friends. Perhaps you grew up believing that you were never worthy of friends. Maybe you were picked on a lot at school, and you may have been made to believe at home that you were not worthy. And when you carry that belief through, that lowers your vibration, and you will not attract genuine caring friends to you. 

Therefore, you spent most of your life alone, which would have been reinforced by being hurt by fake friends you may have picked up. Believing that you are not worthy of friends and being hurt by fake friends would have lowered your vibration significantly. However, you can increase your vibration by changing your thoughts about friendships by making some changes so you can attract genuine friends that will have your back no matter what. Let’s now go over what you need to do to attract friends. 

Believe That You Are Worthy Of Friends

The first step to raising your vibration when making genuine friends is to believe that you are worthy of good friends. Changing the narrative is always the hardest because you are changing the wiring in your brain. However, it is essential to do if you have been made to believe you are not worthy of having good friends. 

That means reciting affirmations that will help change the wiring in your brain, such as “I am worthy of having good friends,” will help as you will begin to believe you are worthy of making some good friends. Once you start to believe in this, your vibration will begin to rise, and you will want to take the next step. 

Remove The Fake Friends In Your Life

If you have any connections who you know are not genuine and who you may even use yourself, it is time to remove them. These fake friends are lowering your vibration and interfering with your life to make some genuine ones. Even if that means spending time alone on a Friday night watching a movie instead of spending time with a fake friend who will later gossip about you to someone else. 

You are removing these fake friends from your life, intending to bring in genuine relationships. If you are alone temporarily because of this, remember that it is better to be alone than to be surrounded by fake friends. Remember, you are on the path to making genuine friends as you want to take the next step. 

Start Seeing The Good In Others

If you have been struggling to trust people, it is understandable that you will believe that everyone you meet has a hidden agenda. However, you must start shifting away from that and believing that there is good in others unless you find a good reason not to trust someone. 

That does not mean trusting them to the point where you give those you meet every detail about yourself, but it also means being open-minded about them having positive qualities. Remember that cynicism will push others away, and that is the one thing you want to stop. Then you will want to do the next thing. 

Be Positive And Supportive Around Others

You will want to be the one that others like to be around as you want to be the half-glass-full type as people do not want to hang around those who are negative. Therefore, you will want to smile, and you will want to talk about the good things in life, even if they are small. That alone will make you a magnet for friends if you consistently do that. 

You will also want to be the one to offer support and find a way to be resourceful if someone you meet needs help with something. But remember to keep your boundaries. If your vibration is higher, you will attract genuine friends, and fake friends will stay away from you. So even though you remove the cynicism, you always want to keep your boundaries. 

When You Are Ready To Make Genuine Friends Put Yourself Out There

There are plenty of social groups where you can meet new people as there are so many other people in the same boat. They want to meet genuine friends, and they want to meet friends such as you. So keep your heart open, see the positive in others, be positive, and be helpful and kind. And always remember to maintain your boundaries. 

You are worthy of making new good friends, and it is time that you do as you deserve to have friends to support you, and your new friends will be fortunate to have you as someone who can support them. So keep your vibration high, and know that good friends will come your way.