You may not be overly motivated to give to anyone without expectations, but you will want to change your attitude. No, you do not want to give to those who will take advantage of you and expect you to give, but you do want to give out of the goodness of your heart in other instances. 

Imagine something. You are at the supermarket checkout, and the older adult in front of you is attempting to pay for bananas but cannot find their debit or credit card. And they also are trying to count the change they have but don’t know if they have enough to pay for those bananas. Yes, you may feel impatient because their struggle is holding up the line. However, simultaneously, you feel the need to help them. So you will interrupt them and tell them and the cashier that you will pay for their bananas. The elderly individual is grateful, and the cashier is too because you were the solution to the predicament they faced with this customer. 

When you think about that, how does that make you feel? Doesn’t it feel rewarding to be in a position to do that? You wanted to help this older person struggling to pay for bananas, and the idea of doing that feels rewarding, but when you help others, your vibration increases. That is the secret to manifesting what you want. Let’s go over why it is essential to help others. 

Why Helping Others Is Essential

You have to remember one thing. Even though everyone is scattered in different parts of the world, you have a connection to others through the human experience, vibration, and through spirit. Therefore, everyone has the right to be alive and to be happy. Humanity is what makes you human, and love, generosity, and compassion are what help society. Ethical and moral understanding is what makes humans unique from other animals. 

Yes, some people are not ethical and not empathetic, but most people are good. You may think most people are self-centered and only look out for themselves, their goals, and their families. Here is a question that you will want to answer honestly. 

Aren’t you the same? But at the same time, you are a good person, but the thing is, you, among others, can become caught up in your life, desires, and goals that you innocently forget that others need help. However, what happens when you are in a position where you stand in line and are being held up by an older person who struggled to pay for bananas? You may have wanted to get your items taken care of by the cashier, and you could have easily hurled insults at the older adult struggling. 

However, you didn’t because you saw they needed help, which is what you did. Instead, you indicated that you have goodness and compassion by paying for the bananas without any expectations. Therefore, helping others, such as the one you helped at the grocery store, enriched your life. So, let’s delve deeper into what benefits you reap from helping others. 

What Benefits Do You Reap By Helping Others?

There are so many benefits that you will gain from helping others without expectations. The one thing is that when you help others, you are happy. And when you are so glad, that raises your vibration, which means you will have an easier time manifesting what you want. Happiness is one of the most positive emotions to experience, and you want to be generally happy to enrich your life. 

Another thing that giving can do for you is that it gives you a sense of purpose. So many people are confused about their life purpose, which weakens their vibrancy. When that happens, a little drive lowers your vibration, and you end up experiencing scarcity and lack. Therefore, when you give to others without expectations, you can find your sense of purpose by being someone who helps others in need. That is significant. 

Another benefit you reap from giving to others without expectation is that it keeps things in perspective. You may grumble about your job, for example, your daily commute from home to the office. However, you will see that others would love to have your life, and those are the ones who you want to help. You may not love your job, but the perspective shifts to being grateful that you have one. Those are some significant benefits of giving to others. However, should you always be so giving? This was mentioned earlier in the article, but there are times when you should not be so giving without any expectations. 

When Should You Not Give Without Expectations?

You only want to hold off from giving to others when it crosses your boundaries. That means you do not want to give to ungrateful people who will expect you to give. So, for example, if you have a neighbor who is moving, but this neighbor has never shown any concern over you and even spoke behind your back, and they ask you for help with packing, that is an instance where you do not want to give them that time. 

This is because they are taking advantage of you by expecting you to drop everything and help them back. If you give away your precious time to help them since they have made it clear that they never have your best interest at heart, then you allow them to cross your boundaries. The other thing is, if you give to someone you do not want to give to because they are not nice, it will breed resentment, which is a low vibrational emotion. Therefore, do not give to those who will hurt you in the end. Now, let’s talk about some simple things you can do by giving to others. 

What Can You Do To Give To Others?

You don’t always have to donate money or your time to give. You can smile and greet a stranger, which will make their day. You can also do things such as share your expertise for free on social media, which can be helpful to so many people. Be kind and open doors for strangers, and accept the possibility that they will not thank you for it. That is on them because when you take without giving, that lowers your vibration. You can also lend an ear to a friend in need. You can offer others so many ways to make you happy. That is such an easy way to increase your vibration.